16/9/2024 Podcast Reflection

Today’s Podcast:

Podcast: Ted Talks Daily: How to Live a Meaningful Life

I listened to this podcast while lying in bed and playing games. I’ve realised I’ve become comfortable multitasking. When the host mentioned that relationships provide meaning in life, my initial reaction was disagreement. As a strong woman who values independence and women’s empowerment, I didn’t resonate with that statement at first. But then the host explained that being part of a story that isn’t solely your own brings meaning. That made me pause and reconsider.

Despite all my talk of independence and years of living away from family and old friends, I recognise I’m afraid of being alone. I’m constantly surrounding myself with new people and groups. My friends often tell me that I’m the one who brings people together, and many of them became friends because of me. That’s when I truly realised that relationships do bring me meaning. It’s not about being the center of attention but rather being part of others’ stories—especially when those stories make them feel good. That gives me a sense of purpose.

Today, a friend called to tell me he finally received an ideal job offer after nearly a year of searching. I was so happy for him, and I felt happy that he shared the news with me, making me part of his story. This ties into the podcast I’m preparing with my friend as well. By providing guidance to people living here, I hope we can also become part of our audience’s story, benefiting them in some way.